
Your Guide to Choosing The Right Venue for You
Choosing your wedding venue is one of the most important decisions you’ll make during the entire planning process- it sets the tone, influences your budget and is what all the other details of your big day is based off of.
Step 1: Know Your Budget:
- Set a total wedding budget before looking at venues
- Determine how much of that budget is allocated to the venue (typically 40% including food and beverage)
- Be aware of what’s included (tables, chairs, linens, staff)
Step 2: Draft Your Guest List:
- Have a rough estimate of your guest count
- This will help eliminate venues that are too small or too large
Step 3: Choose your Style:
- Decide on the vibe: Modern? Rustic? Garden? Beach? Industrial?
- Your venue should align with your vision and theme
Step 4: Pick a General Location:
- Consider if you want a local wedding, destination wedding, or something inbetween
- Think about guest accessibility and accommodations in the area
Step 5: Consider the Season and Date:
- Some venues are more practical during certain season
- Be flexible with your date if you want a specific venue
Step 6: Decide Indoor vs Outdoor:
- Outdoor venues are beautiful but require a weather back up plan—be sure you like the backup plan just as much
- Indoor venues offer more predictability but sometimes limits the amount of space
Step 7: Evaluate the Amenities:
- Does the venue include catering or allow outside caterers?
- Are tables, chairs, linens and decor included?
- Is there a bridal suite or prep room?
- Is there enough parking or valet services?
Step 8: Ask about Restrictions:
- Noise ordinances or curfews
- Preferred (or required) vendor lists
- Decor limitations (no open flames, no hanging items, etc)
- Alcohol and bar regulations
Step 9: Schedule a Site Visit:
- See the space in person before booking (or have your planner go)
- Visit during the same season as your wedding if possible
- Take notes and photos, ask questions about layouts, flow and backup plans
Step 10: Read the Contract Carefully:
- Understand the cancellation policies, payment terms, insurance requirements and what is included
- Confirm exact pricing and payment schedule, and any additional fees (cleaning, overtime, service charges)

Bonus Tips:
- Book Early: Popular venues often fill up 12-18 months in advance
- Trust your gut: You should feel excited and comfortable with the space
- Ask your Planner: A wedding planner can help you identify hidden costs, venue logistics and design potential
Ready to start planning your dream day in Bend, Oregon or any other destination? Let’s chat!

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